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A Close Look at Home

This morning, Max was frightened by my daughter, who happened to be in the laundry room doing something she does often. The dog never realized that Jess left her bedroom and went to the laundry room to retrieve her clean clothing. When we walked downstairs to get ready for our morning walk, Max heard someone in the laundry room, and went into attack mode and proceeded to bark while in a full run towards the room. When he realized it was Jess, he calmed down.

We need to always be on guard, especially when we are in our own homes. Sometimes we get ourselves comfortable at home, and we do not see what is lurking about that could lead us to sin. We don’t see what is happening to our own family members. We are so focused on the outside-the-home stuff, that we miss what is right under our nose. This verse written in the letter to Timothy speaks about financial provision for the family. It is an important responsibility to make sure the financial needs of the family are met. Let us remember that spiritual needs are even more important.

Today, remember that you need to be intentional at home. How is your family? How is your spouse? How are your children? How are your roommates? Whoever lives with you – aim to be invested in their wellbeing. Be proactive. You may not see what is even happening because you are looking elsewhere. Family is important. The book of Genesis speaks a lot about family loyalty. We need to first take care of ourselves and our family, and then reach out into the world. Ask the Spirit to reveal anything that needs addressed in your home. Listen closely. Act with wisdom and love. Allow God to grow your family. Then step out together to serve in love.

“But if anyone does not provide for his relatives, and especially for members of his household, he has denied the faith and is worse than an unbeliever.” – 1 Timothy 5:8 [NLT]

At What Cost

When David was looking to buy a location to have an altar to offer burnt offerings to the Lord, Araunah was going to give him the place. David refused the offer. He insisted on buying it. Not only did he insist on buying it, but 1 Chronicles 21:24 said he wanted to pay the “full price.” He did not want to offer to the Lord something that cost “nothing.”

When we offer something to God, does it cost us something? Is it something we give out of our surplus? Is it something just sitting around collecting dust or is it something that matters to us? Is it a sacrifice to us or something that never would have caught our attention? David could have had the land for free but what would it then have meant to David?

At what cost do you sacrifice to the Lord? Do you pay “full price” or do you give little? This question is not only about money. Time. Use of talents. Recreation. Family. 1The list goes on and on. So what is your cost?

“But the king replied to Araunah, ‘No, I insist on buying it, for I will not present burnt offerings to the LORD my God that have cost me nothing.’ So David paid him fifty pieces of silver for the threshing floor and the oxen.” – 2 Samuel 24:24 [NLT]

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Skewed Focus

1069972_10152056984878776_654235217_nDuring the summer, I often give my dog Max some ice cubes. When we come inside from a walk, I give him one ice cube to munch on and I try to encourage him to drink his water as well. But first thing in the morning he does not want to accept the ice cube because he expects a bone. Every morning he gets a bone to help clean his teeth. He tosses the ice cube on the floor and sits in defiance waiting for me to give him his bone first. He is focused on getting what is better to him so he won’t budge.

At times we have our focus skewed and we have our eyes focused on something that isn’t actually better for us.  Rather than taking the ice cube, we desire the bone. Our eyes light up when we see the bones in life, and we sometimes sacrifice the much needed ice cube for the bone. We do this in many areas of our life—with our family, with our jobs, with money and possessions, etc.

Today, ask God to help you with your focus. Ask Him what areas need adjusted. Seek His guidance and don’t just listen—follow.

“Let your eyes look straight ahead; fix your gaze directly before you. Give careful thought to the paths for your feet and be steadfast in all your ways.” – Proverbs 4:25-26 [NIV]