Every year, there is the annual ant season. I get out the ant baits and liquid gel a friend recommended. In a few days, everything is back to normal. But before this happens, there is a time period when the ants come and take the bait. This morning, as I was checking to be sure things were flowing smoothly, my daughter asked me about how the ant bait works. I explained the process.
As I was explaining everything, I considered the plight of the ants. An ant grabs the stuff from the bait contraption and carries it back to his home. He shares this with his family and friends. Together, they fall. It’s a simple process that works each year during ant season. But it’s also a process that is played out with humans.
We, like the ants, can take the bad bait and carry it to our homes, which results in destruction. It is sad, but it happens often. We carry home our acts of sin. We carry home lies the devil has provided. We carry home false teaching. We carry home a lot of things that can cause problems. Today, take back your house. Consider what’s coming into your house. Is it right? Is it pure? Is it truth? Don’t allow the devil to get a foothold.
“Dear friend, don’t let this bad example influence you. Follow only what is good. Remember that those who do good prove that they are God’s children, and those who do evil prove that they do not know God.” – 3 John 1:11 [NLT]
There was a man and his son standing in line with a group of other people. A lady standing next to the man began talking to the man with typical small talk. The man’s son walked up to the woman he did not know and he smacked the woman. The man immediately grabbed the boy and smacked him again and again. He then said he did not know how his boy learns this behavior because he surely did not learn it from him.
I do not want to get into a discipline discussion. The Bible tells us not to spare the rod. Children need discipline. But I think it is important to make note of our actions because our children learn by example. The boy was not told to apologize. The boy was not told why what he did was wrong. He was not taught a right way to handle the situation. He was hit and then hit again. Perhaps the first hit wasn’t hard enough so it needed to be reinforced.
Today I challenge you to be an example of what you want your children to follow. When they need discipline, discipline them. But be mindful that they will learn from your example. You might not even realize what you are teaching them. The actions speak so much louder than the words. Today’s verse can be seen as one for leaders, for parents, and for anyone. A good example speaks volumes.
“Don’t lord it over the people assigned to your care, but lead them by your own good example.” – 1 Peter 5:3 [NLT]