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Flowery Hand Soap

I am very particular about things. Some say I have OCD, but the doctor said it is only OCD tendencies. When it comes to scents, I like to stick with vanilla and honey or like ocean mists. Typically, the flowery scents attack my nose. Today I asked my daughter to pick out two hand soaps. I did not realize what I was getting myself into by giving her control of the hand soap selection. When I saw what she picked, after we were already home, I cringed at the one bottle. It was a flowery scent.

When I asked her why she selected the flowery hand soap, she said she didn’t look at the scents for the hand soaps. She did not consider scent at all. She selected the hand soap by picking up what was “pretty.” She thought the soap she selected—which she also noted was “special edition” – looked nice. Sadly, the smell leaves more to be desired.

In life, we often make decisions by the looks of things, including our decisions on the people with which we engage. We pass judgment. We turn our noses. We engage with people who look like us. We sometimes avoid people who look a certain way, whether it be due to lack of knowledge, a fear issue, or something else. We read what happened when God’s people wanted a king. They were given a king—King Saul. This man was the one who looked like a king. We later find out that though Saul looked like a king, he certainly was not someone who would lead his people in the right way. But then comes along David. He was a man after God’s own heart. He did not look like a king, but he sure had a heart for God. King David allowed God to do awesome things through him. He continued to keep His eyes fixed on the Lord. Today, be open to how God wants to use you.  Be ready to receive anyone God sends your way!

“And when he had removed him, he raised up David to be their king, of whom he testified and said, ‘I have found in David the son of Jesse a man after my heart, who will do all my will.’” – Acts 13:22 [ESV]

The Limping Dog

 “Desire without knowledge is not good– how much more will hasty feet miss the way!” – Proverbs 19:2 (NIV)

 As I was walking my dog Max, I saw a dog ahead, limping across the street. The little terrier looked to be injured and as I approached the dog, I immediately began to plan what I would do to help this dog. My ten years of medical experience and my knowledge of animals would surely help me to assist this poor dog. When I got closer to the dog, she stopped and allowed me to check her out. I saw her tag mentioned an address just across the street. Then I flipped the tag around to see if there was a phone number, and there I read “handicapped.” The dog wasn’t injured, she was handicapped. There was no vehicular accident, no dog fight, no bad fall.

When I spoke to the owner of the dog, who said her dog is an escape artist, she told me that numerous people had captured the dog when it escaped previously and took it to a veterinarian to try to get help for its front leg that was deformed. Everyone saw it and immediately thought it was broken and went to get it assistance. She had numerous bills as a result.

Looks can be deceiving. From afar, I could see that dog was limping and I immediately jumped to the conclusion that she was hurt from a vehicle, another dog, or a fall. I never thought she would be handicapped though I have seen many handicapped dogs. Sometimes when we see things, our minds wander. We have such imaginations. As I mentioned, I was already planning a course of action before I knew what was wrong with the dog. I thought I was planning ahead to be prepared, and yet what I was preparing for was nonexistent.

We all are guilty of rushing to conclusions or responding before we know the facts. We are told to seek the truth, to have patience, and to use proper judgment, and yet sometimes we jump right in and find ourselves surprised when we realize the truth. I am only thankful when the truth is realized for there are times when people jump in and never do see the truth because their eyes are blinded.

Today as you will see many things, seek out the truth. Don’t immediately jump to conclusions. You may see photos on Facebook with captions telling you a story that is anything but true. You may come across a person and rush to judgment, not grasping the true situation. You may begin to react without all of the facts. Be patient. Seek the truth.

Looks Are Deceiving

Looks are deceiving. My poor dog was walking along the sidewalk like normal, and then up ahead was a Halloween decoration swaying in the wind. He jumped and then he dropped down in his hunting stance and slowly made his way toward the strange looking mummy figure. As we walked by, his eyes were glued on the mummy to make sure it did not attack. Even after we passed by, Max kept turning his head and looking back, focusing only on this falsity. He believed that the mummy was real and that it would come and attack. As a result, he approached the area slowly and was hesitant to take his eyes off of the decoration.

We often see things swaying in the wind and believe a certain way. Our minds can go wild when we have something before us. We take a fake mummy and turn it into a full on nightmare. I’m sure many adults can relate when they think back to that shirt that was hanging in their closet that they swore was a monster as a child. As we know, monsters do not exist.

The devil likes to use our fears and worries to his advantage. He loves when we think the goal is out of reach, when we feel like something is not going to work out, and when we think things are not going our way. We see something that is not the truth, but it seems like it could be the truth. Or in our minds we imagine what could happen– like the mummy could be real and come and attack us– rather than what is really the truth– that the mummy is just some plastic cut out used for seasonal décor. Like my dog, we then begin to focus on the mummy more than anything else.

When we focus on the mummy instead of focusing on reality, we tend to drop down in our own stance– our stance of fear and doubt. With believing the lies we are told and letting our minds run wild, we lose steam for moving forward with what God has in store for us. We sidestep, we fall back, we consider hiding. When David faced Goliath, he didn’t focus on the size of the giant. Instead he focused on the size of his God. When we have a mummy swaying in our life, remember you have a God bigger than any mummy. The devil is the father of lies, and he wants you to believe otherwise. Keep pressing forward. Through Jesus we have victory.

“Not that I have already obtained it or have already become perfect, but I press on so that I may lay hold of that for which also I was laid hold of by Christ Jesus. Brethren, I do not regard myself as having laid hold of it yet; but one thing I do: forgetting what lies behind and reaching forward to what lies ahead. I press on toward the goal for the prize of the upward call of God in Christ Jesus.”
– Philippians 3:12-14 [NASB]