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If You

We often like to add our two cents. It could be sufficient to say a particular thing but we add a little more because it’s on the tip of our tongue. We direct people to a passage of the Bible and then continue onward with our position. Some of us take whatever position we are in and go beyond the position’s description. For some of us, we serve those who are disadvantaged—we get saddened by their situation or irritated by their constant needs. Paul tells us to “keep a smile on your face” and not to add to whatever it is you are doing.

When you are preaching, it should be the Word of God, not your own agenda. When you are helping someone, you help—you don’t take over the situation and become an enabler. When you teach, you be sure to focus on teaching the Bible and not drifting off. When you are providing guidance and encouraging people, you do not cross the line and become bossy, trying to get the people to take your counsel and force your position. When you are in charge of something, you are not to use it to your advantage and get people to do as you desire. If you are in a position to help those that are in distress, be sure to pay attention so you can answer the call and not miss the boat. If you work with those who are disadvantaged, you should not be depressed by their situation. At the same time, you should never let them cause you to get irritated.

This is a lot of do’s and do not’s. It sounds like a bunch of rules. But what Paul is saying can be simplified—whatever you are called to do, do it with a smile and always point to Christ. It is not about you—it is about Him. If you always aim to point others to Christ and it is all about Him and not about you, all of these “rules” will be followed. When we add our two cents, we make it about us. It can never be about us.

 

“If you preach, just preach God’s Message, nothing else; if you help, just help, don’t take over; if you teach, stick to your teaching; if you give encouraging guidance, be careful that you don’t get bossy; if you’re put in charge, don’t manipulate; if you’re called to give aid to people in distress, keep your eyes open and be quick to respond; if you work with the disadvantaged, don’t let yourself get irritated with them or depressed by them. Keep a smile on your face.” – Romans 12:6-8 [MSG]

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Good Ol Thomas

Thomas was given the nickname doubter. No one wants to be a doubting Thomas. He needed to see Jesus and the wounds to actually believe. Yet when we look closely, the other disciples also only believed after they saw Jesus. It is important to have faith as a child and only believe. At the same time, I see this situation with Thomas in a positive light. Thomas believed after he saw– he simply wanted to be sure of things.

Today we have people attempting to tell us the Truth. Some people say they have heard a special word from God and they form their own groups that do not follow God’s Truth. There are people who manipulate God’s Word in an attempt to promote their vision. We have infomercials that stretch the truth, advertisements that are too good to be true, and much more. Sadly people are so very quick to jump at these lies, instead of seeking out the Truth. Thomas wanted to have evidence. He wanted to be sure. Once he knew the Truth, he believed.

Jesus told the disciples to stay alert and beware those who came and pretended to be Him. He warned them that there would be lies and schemes, there would be miss-truths that people would attempt to spread. We see this too many times still today. It is okay to be like Thomas and to want to see proof. When someone says that God’s Word says something, check for yourself. When a minister preaches a message that you are unsure about, dig into God’s Word. If you seek the Truth, the Truth you shall find (Matthew 7:7). Stay alert.

“You will seek Me and find Me when you search for Me with all your heart.”
– Jeremiah 29:13 [NASB]