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Refusal to Love

Something that bothers me a lot is seeing the way children are with their parents. So many children today have little or no respect for their parents and as I watch their interaction it is easy to see why. I am not saying I’m the greatest parent or offering any parenting advice, but it is very clear: “A refusal to correct is a refusal to love; love your children by disciplining them.”

When your child is being unruly, is it wise to buy them something (which is a reward) for that behavior? Are we supposed to say, yes you were very disrespectful to me and to others but I will reward you so you continue this behavior in the future? It pains me to see this happen again and again. Perhaps these parents think they are taking the road that is easiest (which is true) and that they are being a good friend (though parents are not to be friends first or they would be called “friends” rather than “mother” or “father”). Sadly, these people are destroying their children (Proverbs 19:18). Yes, destroying them.

There are many young adults who are disrespectful because their parents allowed it. They have no compassion for their parents never taught it. They have no humility because their parents never showed it. They have no true concept of love because the parents only gave things. If you are a parent, it is your job to discipline. I want my kids to do great things in the world, so I discipline them so that they will be able to grow and learn and do great things in the world. I am so grateful that our Father disciplines us and I am thankful that my parents disciplined me and my sister. If you truly love your kids, watch what you teach them.

 

“A refusal to correct is a refusal to love;
love your children by disciplining them.”

-Proverbs 13:24 [MSG]

 

“Discipline your children while you still have the chance;
indulging them destroys them.”

-Proverbs 19:18 [MSG]

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Rush Rush Rush

In the grocery store check out, there is often a race to see which register to choose to get finished the fastest. In this rush rush world, people do not like to take the time to count out their cash to make a payment. It is so much faster to swipe a card. Companies have raised the limit required for a signature to make things go even faster.

There was a lady peering into each checkout lane as frequently done so as to select the lane which would most likely get her out of the store fastest. She came toward my lane because she did not see anything on the conveyor belt and assumed that she would be ready right away. Her quick glance missed that the man in front of her had not even had the opportunity to empty his cart. He had a large number of small cans of cat food in his cart. Her quick glance and rush to make a decision caused her to be in the lane that would take the longest.

From this story, we can be reminded the need to further examine before making decisions. We can also be reminded of the need to slow down in the first place. Why must we rush around so much? Today, take a moment to pause and take a deep breath.

“Enthusiasm without knowledge is no good; haste makes mistakes.” – Proverbs 19:2 [NLT]

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