Today’s fortune cookie says, “A well fed romance nourishes the soul.” As the Bible notes, you reap what you sow. When it comes to romance, what you put into the relationship is what you get out of the relationship. Time is our most important possession, and in a relationship, it is important to invest time to bless the relationship. Let us take this a step further, looking beyond our love relationships and our friendships… let us look at our relationship with God.
In the Bible, we read often of the covenants that God makes with His people. We read of the comparison of our relationship with God as a marriage. We read that we are His Bride. The fortune cookie notes that a nourished soul results from being well fed. The question may be posed—how are you feeding your romance?
Today, consider how you are feeding your relationship with your spouse? How are you feeding your friendships? How are you feeding your relationship with God? Ask the Spirit to help you be more intentional with these relationships. Take special care with your relationship with God, knowing that investing in this relationship – your most important relationship – will overflow to bless your other relationships as well.
“So teach us to number our days that we may get a heart of wisdom.” – Psalm 90:12 [ESV]
Week 5 – Empty Pockets
CARING FOR TREASURES
- Treasures in heaven can’t be destroyed
- Treasures in heaven can’t be stolen
- Treasures will point to your heart
- God is in control of time (Psalm 74:16-17)
- Make the best use of time (Ephesians 5:16)
- Teach us to number our days that we may gain heart of wisdom (Psalm 90:12)
- Each of us have been entrusted/given gifts/possessions dependent upon our ability (Matthew 25:14-30)
- Use your gifts to serve others & glorify God (1 Peter 4:10-11)
- Your soul is more important than the treasure of this world (Matthew 16:26)
- Your life does not consist of an abundance of possessions (Luke 12:13-21)
- Give and it will be given to you (Luke 6:38)
Read Matthew 25:14-30, The Parable of the Bags of Gold (The Parable of the Talents)
1) Why do the men each get different amounts of gold/talents? What does this mean for us?
2) When we look at this parable, what do we see that is required of us as stewards?
3) What is the immediate response of the three men when they received their talents from their Master? What does this mean?
4) Why is the third servant described as a “wicked, lazy servant”?
Handle with Care is a 6-week series focused on studying God’s Word and responding with care. The six weeks of messages may sound like instructions for laundry care — but you will soon find Handle with Care beckons you to examine within, to gauge how you truly love God and love others, and to grow inward and outward. Caring starts with the heart and pours out into the community.
- Week 1 – Stain Removal – Caring for God’s glory
- Week 2 – Do Not Bleach – Caring for Truth
- Week 3 – Add Fabric Softener – Caring like Barnabas
- Week 4 – Fasten the Zipper – Caring for Unity
- Week 5 – Empty Pockets – Caring for Treasures
- Week 6 – Iron Low Heat – Caring without Complacency
I am not good with directions, hence the reason I love my GPS. Even so, I had to learn some shortcuts for my recent driving. I did this all without the GPS. I stepped out and left the old, familiar traveled roads. It was all about time management. Remember Psalm 90:12. If I spent too much time driving, other things would get neglected, plus my kids would not be happy if I was late.
Taking an adventure on these new paths has been a blessing. I did not feel rushed and I had extra time for much needed things. I was so glad that I did not settle for the old way. This reminded me of the direction of God. Often we like to return to the same old paths, but God doesn’t want us to return to the past. We aren’t meant to return to the old paths. He is doing a new thing. We need to continue along with Him forward, not turning back to where we once were.
Remember, God is pruning you and growing you. The place you were at, you needed to get through. But that doesn’t mean you are to return. Things are different. You have changed. God has a new path for you to travel. After you travel that path, there will be another season, followed by another. God will continue to do a new thing in your life so you can be made into the image of Jesus Christ. Staying on the same old roads will never get you there. Being comfortable does not happen in a life with Jesus. We do not stay in the familiar; we walk into the unknown. Continue to press forward where God leads, moving forward in faith.
Read Ephesians 4:17-24.
We often keep our Father waiting. We don’t spend time with Him. We go through our entire day and don’t even speak to Him or even think of Him. Sometimes we walk away. And as the father in the story of the Prodigal Son, our Father waits. He’s always reaching out, always wanting us to just speak to Him—to have a relationship with Him.
In Psalm 90:12, Moses said, “So teach us to number our days that we may get a heart of wisdom” (ESV). He understood time was our most valuable possession. As such, we must always be reviewing how we spend our time because that’s our priority in life. Is God your top priority—your number one priority?
Matthew 13:45-46 speaks of the pearl of great value. This pearl was found and because of the great value, the merchant sold ALL that he had just so he could buy it. But what do we do? Sometimes we do not consider our pearl of great value – Jesus, our prized possession. Instead we choose lesser pearls in life (possessions, power, pleasures).
You need to make room for God’s presence. In 2 Kings 4:8 we read about Elisha going to Shunem. A wealthy woman there fed Elisha when he passed through. She spoke with her husband about building a room for him—she wanted that man of God to come whenever he passed through and stay at her place. Do you have a place where you go to read your Bible or pray? A special place to push away the noise of the world and fix your eyes on Him? In Matthew 6:6, before Jesus tells the disciples how to pray, he tells them to “go into your room and shut the door” (ESV). Why? To shut out the worldly noise.
Routine – Not Routine
Routines are great. They help you to get a better night’s sleep. They help you to have less stress in life. But the issue is that sometimes routines are like traditions. The Bible doesn’t speak about too many traditions we are to keep. Most of the traditions we have are man-made traditions. I love traditions but sometimes we find our hearts not ii them because it’s simply routine. Like this man I met once. He sang the words, “Jesus loves me, the silo.” Yes, that’s not how the song goes, but he didn’t know that. He heard it wrong and continued to sing it wrong for over a decade. He didn’t know the truth—his life was built around tradition. Only when he was an adult did he learn what those words truly were and what the song truly meant.
In Luke 18, we read of the Pharisee and the Tax Collector. The Pharisee was all about tradition. He was going to the Temple to pray. He was fasting twice a week. He was tithing from all that he got. Yes, he was going through the motions, but his heart was proud. He didn’t have his heart fixed on God. The Tax Collector, he stood before God as a humble man, emotionally beating his chest. He recognized his need for God. He truly was baring his heart before God. That’s what God wants. He wants honest, raw, truth. He wants you to open up and pour out your heart. And He wants your ears to listen when He responds.
“So teach us to number our days, That we may present to You a heart of wisdom.”
– Psalm 90:12 [NASB]